I was sitting here thinking of the fire that I've been in since October 2024 -- the month the "C" word became a part of my life. When I was diagnosed it took me a week to really understand what was being said to me. After all, me? cancer? at this age? where they do that at??? I couldn't wrap my mind around why this was a part of my journey, and especially now. I had so many plans that required my body and mind to be vibrant, and cancer came and bulldozed it all. I cried. I pa

Oftentimes when we embark on the "change journey" we hear this annoying voice in our head telling us we aren't good enough, we don't qualify, there are better people out there than us, we can't do it, other people do it better etc. This voice is consistent in its mission to destroy our dreams in the midst of dreaming it. What a tactic! How strategic is the enemy of our purpose in that he doesn't wait until we have begun, he wants the seed to thrive be killed in the "womb" so

We all face obstacles in our lives that seem excruciatingly challenging. Some of us quit, some of us cry through it and the very few of us push through with ease. What separates us you may ask? mindset. Each one of us have developed a particular belief system mentally based on our upbringing, society and environment we are mostly in. Out atmosphere dictates our fight or failures. Now, how do we win? We challenge that mindset. I will fail, it's no point trying, it's too hard..

Do you turn inward and envelope yourself in the pain? what does that do? Sometimes we punish ourselves be reliving the harsh realities we...